Whatever you feel like

By nature I'm not a very picky person.  I just go with the flow.  That doesn't mean I never do what I want, but just when I really want to do something I make it known.  In general though things are easier for me when someone else offers input on what they want to do.  Now with the HyWy out of the picture for a while my indecisiveness has proven to be very difficult. 

Picture this as a typical Sunday afternoon when the HyWy was in town:

Me (as we walk back from Salsa by the Lake): What do you want to do tonight?

HW: I don't know.  What do you want to do?

Me: Well we could go see Harry Potter if you want.  Or we could chill at home, get ready for the week, etc.  It is a long movie and the next showing isn't until 830. 

HW: That's true I do want to see that.  But you're right I'm not sure I want to be out late b/c I have a big week ahead of me. [Ed. note: Alt response to follow] Yeah I know it's a long movie, but we really want to see it so let's just go tonight.

Now picture this same mental process without the HyWy:

Well I want to go see the movie.  But it's really late.  But I really want to see the movie.  But do I want to come home that late?  I could just go see the movie during the week.  But I don't have time this week.  But I want to see the movie.  AHHHH What do I do!?

I'm not saying that either of us makes the decisions about what we want to do as individuals, but rather sometimes it's easier to cop out and 'do what someone else wants' than making the decision myself.  Either way I have 2.5 months of making decisions on my own so I better get used to it.